This sounds exactly like my DH's family. I have learned that its more important to work on being a good person. Grow in your wisdom and spirituality. I'm more nerdy and introverted, less religious, and more open minded compared to my family. I … You have an independent mind. I neither fit in with them nor do they treat me like a part of the family. I ask “what is the truth”. You state your opinions loud and clear. I’m trying to be a “better” person, and although I may not have any clue what the means, or how to go about doing it, I’m trying. Realizing you don't fit in with your family is difficult to handle emotionally. don't fit in with my family. The thing is, they're really lovely people. How to deal? You do fit in with the family of God. Being mixed-race is only one of the factors that make me different. I feel like a complete outsider in my family. Unfortunately, many of us spend time thinking about what we ‘should’ be doing, rather than allowing our hearts lead us in the direction we really want to go. Accept you do not fit and be good with it as the more you read, grow and learn the less you will fit. Of course, my family history does partly define me, but mostly not in the way that those people think. You don't fit in with the crowd, so you can't sit back and agree with a matter you don't believe in. But as I’ve grown older and started a family and career, it’s become an important part of my values to show up for others, for my friends, family, career, and myself, even when it’s not comfortable for me. My family (as in parents and siblings) don't talk to me much or spend time with me or tell me about anything that's going on in their lives or in the family. Everyone who knows them loves them, and they're all really tight but I've never felt like I belong with them. To them, different equals bad. I have convictions. I used to handle it by doing my best to avoid groups where I didn’t fit in right away. Hi, I don't know if this is the right place to put this but I [20/f] have never felt like I really fit in with my family. I am in the same situation but instead of feelings of depression from this, I’ve accepted that I am always going to be the “black sheep”. They're also passive aggressive in … I just don’t fit in. They are very insular, very involved with each other, and very apt to causing problems amongst each other if the others don't fit into what they expect of them the instant they expect it. For me, it translated into a low self-worth, no self-esteem, and reckless behavior. I live with my father, mother and sister. First I’d like to say I understand. I yearned for acceptance, so I spent much of my time trying to be someone I wasn't. I’m 18. Subject: I don't fit in with my family at all and I'm stressed out. Take me for example. Don't try to force them to fit into who you want them to be. 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